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Common of marriage of the Bouyei nationality

From;  Author:Stand originally
The marriage of the Bouyei nationality is a monogamy. Of the same clan or of the same surname are forbidden intermarriage. Also retain ” of marriage of watch of “ aunt mother's brother and elder brother eventually younger brother reachs turn the room is made consuetudinary. The love before marriage of young men and women is free, the young men and women with single each district likes have the aid of year the common that celebrate a red-letter day, go to market and the opportunity that collective meets, with 3, 5 people arrive 7, the pattern that 8 people freedom sets, through chatting josh is mixed sing exchange, pour out or express each other feeling. When girl of certain of settle on of a man, according to the tradition, must seek keep sb company of a third party, some appears personally by his sister elder brother's wife the introduction. If the woman has this meaning, can make an appointment alone peaceful place is farther antistrophic folk song, expressive affection, present authenticating object till bilateral each other, make clear them already make a pledge is lifelong.
When be engaged, hold intermediary in the palm to go by man parents the bride's side, the wine with send certain, flesh, make the gift that makes a kind smooth with a rake smooth with a rake. If the other side agrees, the 2nd times go-between wants the each other of ” of “ character 8 both sides of male and female to be ” of “ desired effect, want conform to of ” of “ character 8 only, criterion but choose marries surely date. This takes an area to send the number of betrothal gifts, double ” of 6 ” of particularly exquisite “ or “ is counted, it is to take “ allegedly 6 ” namely the homophonic of salary, in order to state the in pairs after marriage has the idea that salary has good fortune surely. When marrying, bridegroom is not greeted close, the young men and women that asks a few intimate friend only is greeted for you. The bride is to maintain an umbrella to come on foot commonly the bridegroom's or husband's family, also have individually equestrian, sit of the bridal sedan chair. Marry newlywed is different that day room, morrow returns a married woman's parents' home namely. The Bouyei nationality that area of inhabit a region takes still retains “ does not fall husband home ” or call “ to sit of a ” consuetudinary. Some just should grow 3 two years after 56 years even husband home. The Bouyei nationality of live together area is major already abolish this one custom.